Friday, September 24, 2010

एक बार फिर से

जब इस खेल मे कोई हार जाता है,सारा मंज़र अजनबी हो जाता है

जो था कभी ताजमहल आज वो महज एक मकबरा नज़र आता है

सब कुछ तो था साफ मगर क्यो अंजान थे हम

देखते है हम जो सपने हर बार वही क्यो बिखर जाता है !


कहते है वो हम अब भी अज़ीज है ,बस वो नही करीब है

हो गई हद बेरूख़ी की आज की वो कहते है हम बे नसीब है.

हमने तो देखा था साथ उनके ही मुक़द्दर अपना

अब माँगे क्या दुआ हम जो संग अपने नही अपना मुरीद है !


करो ना कारोबार इन सपनो का, सकूँन बे मोल बिक जाता है

लूटता है सारे राह मुसाफिर मज़िल भी कही छूट जाता जाता है

जानते है सब कुछ हम भी लेकिन

फ़ितरातन दिल की है, एक बार फिर से तबा होने मे क्या जाता है !

Friday, March 12, 2010

Women Bill

Since last week I am in ebb and flow what is difference between reservation and communalization. At the time of independence when British tried to gave communal award (separate electorate right on the basis of community )to India on the name of Hindu, Muslim, and shikh and even on the name of most downtrodden of the society, Mr. M K Gandhi went to hunger strike till death and we came up with Poona pact . His logic was that they are discrimination downtrodden on the basis of social status and in this way we’ll never achieve a united India.
If situation is like that then what is extent of legitimacy of women bills? Do our honorable leaders really think that women position in this society is because of absence of protective discrimination? Or it is just a politics …..and everything is fair in politics attitude.
Currently women situation is not a political problem rather it social problem, problem is mental setup of society. We need to fill that gap of the social and personal affairs of women ...Women are always exploited within the family just because of personal hegemony created by the male dominant society... Our society always describe women problem as personal matter and never tried to discuss politically. Personal should be political also. Someone has said that women are not born they are created, It’s absolutely correct. Here comes the difference between sex and gender. Sex is biological but gender is social. Those who discriminate them on the basis of Biology it’s not correct because no one complain about the natural inequality as no BLACK want to be WHITE they just wan equal identity and recognition. As no low is sovereign so nothing can be achieved absolutely by law. What women need more is social, cultural and economic independence and equality rather than political representation.
What I really feels this bill is just to inculcate in the mind of every women that you are not equal and until and unless you got some protective discrimination you can’t be uplifted. This is again a hegemony created by male dominant society and our politicians are going to exploit the sentiment.